Some Quotes For Galauers ;)

-buat yang lagi nunggu seseorang sambil dikit2 menghibur diri sendri

" Somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence that life is worth while, so when you are lonely, remember this is true: Somebody, somewhere is thinking of you."

-buat yang suka sama orang tapi "just stuck, ga maju2"

"How do I say goodbye to someone I never really had? Why do my tears fall so endlessly for someone who was never really mine? Why is it I miss someone I was never really with? And why do I love someone whose love was never really mine?"

"Sometimes we think we need answer's but most of the time it´s just better to walk away,and try to get on with your life."

-buat yang lagi fallin' in love

"If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you."

"You will always be the answer, when somebody asks me what I'm thinking about."

"again and again I'm dreaming about you
again and again I can't erase all about you
again and again until I'm tired and I don't know when."

-buat yang lagi pengen "move on" alias "letting go someone who's not worth it buat ditunggu"

"I spent so many nights thinking about you,my heart spent to many hours missing you, I wasted my time being with you, and now it's time to move on."

"One day you'll love me, the way I loved you. One day you'll think of me the way I thought of you. One day you'll cry for me, the way I cried for you. One day you'll want me, but I won't want you. yam!"

“You have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again.”

"You either let go for two reasons.... you've learned enough to want to, or you've been hurt enough you have to."

-buat yang lagi broken heart

"I wish i were a little girl again, because skinned knees are easier
to fix than broken hearts."

"you can say that you always wish me to be happy, but don't you know it can't be realize, coz to be happy means you lovin' me and always be with me but you can't let yourself do it for me"

"Have you ever wondered which hurts more:
saying something and wishing you hadn't or saying nothing and wishing you had?"

"it's time to move the f*ck on!
you make me tired of waiting for so long. maybe you're just too weird to be true!"
"It's hard to trust and it's hard to cry. It's hard to love and later say goodbye. But it's much harder to let go when you really want to say no. But this is life of making hearts grow"

“To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.”

"I can't escape the thought of you. Even in my dreams you are there. It's not fair how your gone, and how you're moving on so fast, while I am still living in the past."

"just because one simple sentence.. u have already killed all d reason for me to care .. but I'm still standing here .. for one stupid reason that I still don't understand why, u can call it love.. But of course, something has changed!!"

"It's funny how the first time we were at this place, something between us was beginning.....but it breaks my heart to know that we are at this same place and that something between us is now ending."

"why am I such a fool fallin' in love with that foolest person!"

- buat yang gak bisa berhenti mencintai seseorang:

"You taught me how to love, but not how to stop."

"in every girls life there is a guy she will never forget, and the summer when it all began."

"I hope that in the end, we can all laugh and say it was worth it."

"Still I won't say goodbye, won't ever say goodbye. And know that I'll always be yours."

"I don't wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone."

"I reached for sleep and drew it round me like a blanket muffling pain and thought together in the merciful dark"

"Sometimes we have just to let go of someone who matters to us not because we want to but because we have to, and its the right things to do... let us remember that we cant force anyone to love us...we cant beg someone to stay when he wants to leave and be with someone else...this is what live is all about... however the end f love is not the end of life.. it should be the beginning of understanding that love lives for a reason and leaves with a lesson"

"Don't you know that I still wait someone who don't realize that I wait him for so long.
Don't you know that I can't forget someone I really love and I don't know why.
Don't you know that I hurt really so bad because of being tired of waiting.
Don't you know...
Don't you know...
Don't you know... that someone is you?"

-buat para laki2:

"Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top."

-move on!

"I can spend minutes, hours, days, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces back together, justifying what could've, would've happened or I can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the FU*K on!"

10 Kualitas Diri Yang Disukai

abis ngacak ngacak lappy si udaa, I found a worthy file in it.. and proudly wanna share this with you guys.. ;)

10 kualitas diri yang disukai :-)


1. KETULUSAN
Ketulusan menempati peringkat pertama sebagai sifat yang paling disukai oleh smua orang. Ketulusan membuat orang lain merasa aman dan dihargai karena yakin tidak akan dibodohi atau dibohongi. Orang yang tulus selalu mengatakan kebenaran, tidak suka mengada-ada, pura-pura, mncari-cari alsan atau memutarbalikkan fakta. Tentu akan lebih ideal bila ketulusan yang selembut merpati itu diimbangi dengan kecerdikan seekor ular. Dengan begitu, ketulusan tidak menjadi keluguan yang bisa merugikan diri sendiri.

2. KERENDAHAN HATI
Berbeda dengan rendah diri yang merupakan kelemahan, kerendahan hati justru mengungkapkan kekuatan. Hanya orang yang kuat jiwa nya yang bisa bersikap rendah hati. Ia seperti padi yang semakin berisi, semakin menunduk. Orang yang rendah hati bisa mengakui dan menghargai keunggulan orang lain. Ia bisa membuat orang di atas nya merasa oke, dan membuat orang di bawah nya tidak merasa minder.

3. KESETIAAN
Kesetiaan sudah menjadi barang langka dan sangat tinggi harga nya. Orang yang setia selalu bisa dipercaya dan diandalkan. Dia selalu menepati janji nya, mempunyai komitmen yang kuat, rela brkorban, dan tidak suka berkhianat.

4. BERSIKAP POSITIF
Orang yang bersikap positif selalu berusaha melihat segala sseuatu dari kacamata positif, bahkan dalam situasi yang buruk sekalipun. Dia lebih suka membicarakan kebaikan daripada keburukkan orang lain, lebih suka bicara mengenai harapan daripada keputusasaan, lebih suka mencari solusi daripada frustasi, lebih suka memuji daripada mengecam, dsb.

5. CERIA
Karena tidak semua orang dikaruniai tempramen ceria, maka keceriaan tidak harus diartikan ekspresi wajah dan tubuh, tapi sikap hati. Orang yang ceria adalah orang yang bisa menikmati hidup, tidak suka mengeluh dan selalu berusaha meraih kegembiraan. Dia bisa mentertawakan situasi, orang lain, juga dirinya sendiri. Dia punya potensi untuk menghibur dan mendorong semangat orang lain.

6. BERTANGGUNG JAWAB
Orang yang bertanggung jawab akan melaksanakan kewajibannya dengan sungguh-sungguh. Jika melakukan kesalahan, dia berani mengakuinya. Ketika mengalami kegagalan, dia tidak akan mencari kambing hitam untuk disalahkan. Bahkan jika dia merasa kecewa dan sakit hati, dia tidak akan menyalahkan siapapun. Dia mnyadari bahwa dirinya sendirilah yang bertanggung jawab atas apa pun yang dialami dan dirasakannya.

7. PERCAYA DIRI
Rasa percaya diri memungkinkan seseorang menerima dirinya sebagaimana adanya, menghargai dirinya dan menghargai orang lain. Orang yang percaya diri mudah menyesuaikan diri dengan lingkungan dan situasi yang baru. Dia tahu apa yang harus dilakukannya dan melakukan yang terbaik.

8. KEBESARAN JIWA
Kebesaran jiwa dapat dilihat dari kemampuan seseorang memaafkan orang lain. Orang yang berjiwa besar tidak membiarkan dirinya dikuasai rasa benci dan permusuhan. Ketika menghadapi masa-masa sukar dia tetap tegar, tidak membiarkan dirinya hanyut dalam kesedihan dan keputusasaan.

9. EASY GOING
Orang yang easy going menganggap hidup ini ringan. Dia tidak suka membesar-besarkan masalah kecil. Bahkan berusaha mengecilkan masalah-masalah besar. Dia tidak suka mengungkit-ungkit masa lalu dan tidak mau khawatir dengan masa depan. Dia tidak mau pusing dan stress dengan masalah-masalah yang berada di luar kontrolnya.

10. EMPATI
Empati adalah sifat yang mengagumkan. Orang yang berempati bukan saja pendengar yang baik tapi juga bisa menempatkan diri pada posisi orang lain. Ketika terjadi konflik, dia selalu mencari jalan keluar terbaik bagi kedua belah pihak, tidak suka memaksakan pendapat dan kehendaknya sendiri. Dia selalu berusaha memahami dan mengerti orang lain.